Non vowel resources of some good mood

According to documentaries, such a Soviet surgeon as Nikolai Amosov owns the following phrases: «Man is an animal, since he has biological needs,» «Man is an animal, only with intelligence.»

«… You will make a lot of discoveries, not wanting it yourself …”, – a phrase from the song by Ostap Bender (Andrei Mironov), the film «12 Chairs» of the 1978 version of the USSR (there is also the film «12 Chairs», shot in 1971 in the USSR).

Empiricism is the experience gained in practice – eyes, ears, nose, mouth and skin, in a word, sensory organs? Everyone, in order to survive, uses his life experience, if you do not use it or if it is not there, you can weaken and die? In difficult times and in times of change, do some always have a greater need for coaches and psychics to create pink hurt? Is the industry making money on experience a profitable thing? Everywhere only «cargo», «cargo», «cargo», «cargo» of those who live at the expense of «cargo», and no material assistance? I won’t give money, but will I teach life?

«… and now you need to think with your own brains, and the people are not used to it, he immediately, like a cow on ice, out of the blue… people will begin to move in bundles with their minds…» – exemplary words about the prospects of creating private insane asylums during the changes of one of the heroes of the comedy film «A Nightmare in a Madhouse», USSR, 1990, directed by Nikolai Gusarov.

Accidentally overheard in a bus conversation of two women. First woman: «His wife works, he does not work, sits in the apartment, writes a book.» The second woman: «And what is the book about?» First woman: «About life, but I say, did he even see this life?» From this, the conclusion is – can everyone be called psychologists who teach how to live – have they ever seen this life? Of course, in order to tell someone, you need to go somewhere, and not only in some places, but also in various situations, or chat with someone who has visited somewhere.

«… futurologists,» who don’t know real life, were clearly in a hurry.»

Excerpt from the article by Andrey Mukovozchik «Continuous Futorology» published in the newspaper «Sovetskaya Belorussia» (Belarus Today) No. 12 (25399) dated January 18, 2018.

Who is closer to real life – a psychologist, futurologist, or a person who does not have a diploma of the first and has nothing to do with the second, but who has been to various places and situations? Is a real psychologist and futorologist the one who is as close to life as possible, and not hidden from it? Why are there suicides? The psychologist must be a leader, otherwise how will he lead people if he, under certain circumstances, can be one of those who need to be led? The best psychologist is the one who is called a strong spirit person: do people «absorb» their qualities and line of behavior when communicating with him? Psychologists can be divided into theorists and practitioners: the theoretician is the one who deals with psychology in the office, the practitioner is the one who is in practice? Futurologist Alvin Toffler, who, according to his biography, went to work as an installer to learn about life from the inside out? Relations between people can be divided into sea waves: the first, second, third, fourth, etc.? One of the directions in the study of psychology is to try everything on yourself – who wants to try on «alien» shirts, having been in situations that ordinary people encounter? A strong one who does not have what are called weaknesses? A smart one who has weaknesses and can satisfy them? According to the phrase attributed to Guy Julius Caesar, is everything an experience teacher?

Psychologists, undoubtedly, without irony, smart people, transpersonal psychology, team building (team building), tests by Lusher, Eysenck, they have a lot of serious psychological discoveries and works, among which, as popular science films tell, for example, a woman is excited by tactile touches, and the man from what he saw (how this will help to survive, for example, a hungry and apartmentless guest worker at a construction site), it turns out that the psychology of some psychologists is for a certain social stratum, while those who work are guest workers om and sleeps in a transport car, sometimes feeding lice on himself, everything is fine, since a migrant worker a priori can’t have everything bad, he’s a guest worker, so he’s fine, maybe the migrant workers are all right in the psychological sense, maybe, they are all strong in spirit, because the profession itself requires the presence of fortitude.

Psychologists are literate, but, unfortunately or joyfully, not all of them know the life, the life of a migrant worker, a homeless person, an unemployed worker, perhaps to become a good practical psychologist, and not a theoretician, you first need to work on a construction site as a helper, in a factory as a machine operator – to find out what kind of «bread» is what people say, as many Nobel laureates in the field of medicine did: they tested everything on themselves, endangering their lives, infecting themselves with diseases and trying to cure themselves of them with their invention.

There are words that are attributed to Felix Dzerzhinsky: «Whoever didn’t sit in solitary confinement has nothing to talk about» (by the way, such famous people as pilot Valery Chkalov, film actor Georgy Zhzhenov, singer Alexander Novikov, hero were in prison or on guardhouse Kotovsky revolution, and they probably are real psychologists, only without diplomas). You can rephrase the words of Dzerzhinsky – «who did not work at the construction site, with that…» or «who did not experience deprivation, with that …", so no matter how loudly it is said, you can probably go from the Old Testament to the new, in this case, in the sense of psychology, or to supplement existing psychology with psychology that helps to survive such as the same homeless and hungry guest worker, differentiate psychology for different people, since everyone has different problems, they are not universal, because classical psychology is probably about it definitely doesn’t say anything.

The inscription on the logo of the unit of psychological operations: «Persuade change influence» (approximate translation: «Influence changes belief»).

How to find a remedy for what is called stress, without side effects – incorrectly released what is called emotions, and has already broken the law? Higher powers gave instincts and other programs of behavior, but did not give methods for their implementation? Aggressive people are no less free than in prisons, they just, unlike those who are in prison for crimes committed on an emotional basis, know how safe it is to throw aggression, for example, in what is called complaints and denunciations (by anonymous letters) – this makes it possible to restore the psychological balance to those who have been offended, without resorting to physical impact on the offender. The states and the people living in them, «banned» some actions psychologically (moral) and, just in case, legally (laws) for those who are not affected by morality and beliefs? In one of the feature films about the war, a soldier took a cartridge in his hand and said something like this: «This (cartridge) is for those who are not affected by» beliefs». Sometimes you have to use force to those who are not affected by beliefs? If you consider yourself serious, and if, for example, you listen to the radio and believe everything they say, are you not serious anymore? Each consciousness has its own torture – for some, torture is an ugly hairstyle, for others is torture being in prison? Make muck – get joy, or the antidote for stress has long been known, should the psychologist give the necessary information to restore psychological stability, as the doctor needs the right medicine? The behind-the-scenes psychology prevents mental problems (you got naughty, and you spoke out) and heals them, while the classical one is not quite capable of this and deals, as a rule, with the consequences of stress, and not with warning it (you got naughty, and you «Swallowed» without responding to rudeness)? Is behind-the-scenes psychology a kind of «wild West,» an area of psychology that is not yet officially used? Is classical psychology transformed into coaching and motivational oratory or is it just inventing new phrases by ambitious people to emphasize individuality, and is there really no difference between classical psychology and everything else, or is there? An example of the actions of the unspoken psychology is given in the film «Prisoner of If Castle»? Judging by the actions of the heroes of the film «Prisoner of If Castle», psycho-technologies for healing have long been known, why was it necessary to reinvent the wheel again in the form of psychology, and even which rides poorly? There is no stress at work, if there is stress, then this work is not for you? There is no stress, since stress is only someone’s personal perception of a situation as stress? It is necessary to make sure that no one defeats you, you need to get a job where you feel like a fish in water: choose a place where we will be the first, not the second? Is life cruel to those called tender? If you don’t like people (it happens), you need to isolate yourself from them or find a job where you work alone? Live yourself and do not disturb others? If they will listen to the speaker, then only then will he be a speaker, without listeners there is no speaker, without listeners there is no psychologist and there are no other experts on life? The suite is made by the king – if everyone considers the king to be a king, then only then is he a king? Are angry, vengeful people usually sentimental? Voodoo doll and black magic – «yesterday’s snow» and self-hypnosis, denunciation (anonymous letter) with real facts pointed out in it by someone, is this the Voodoo doll and black magic? There should be books with unofficial (unofficial) information (or etiquette) with the information that is given to children in families considered normal according to generally accepted canons and not given in other families, such books can be given to those whose problems the state could not solve through psychologists etc., for example, to people suffering from various addictions, since people with addictions will sooner or later stumble on a wall of social misunderstanding, such a book is something like the «Field Charter» of an army unit, which briefly states what is needed for lat in order to fulfill the mission and survive? If books with information about the real structure of the social system and about other things that help people correctly understand what is happening and survive, these books do not always want to be sold in bookstores, they can be sold in specialized places, for example, in pharmacies for those who were not helped by the classical psychological help, or can the same psychologists and psychiatrists write to their clients who are confused in life’s labyrinths so that they can find a way out of this labyrinth? Deprogramming from unsuccessful programming – is this when the new replaces the old? Is the information in this material the information that should at least be voiced? Offend the weak – well done against the sheep, and against the well done the sheep himself? When you are weak, everyone attacks you, when you are strong, you have no conflicts with anyone, and nobody touches you – is a lame duck always in greater danger than healthy? Are they afraid of making the bold their enemies, but they are not afraid of making the timid one their enemies? When someone was fired, is there no longer power over him who fired him, or is his influence limited at best, which gives certain opportunities for the dismissed person? After the fight, waving their fists? It is generally accepted that some people in creative professions have a psychopathic personality type – it is believed that some artists self-medicated, unconsciously used what is now called art therapy for treating or stopping their psychopathic conditions, whereas about denosotherapy (anonymous therapy) or intrigotherapy and recognition of these terms officially scientific and psychological, it’s not a secret that many people use this to restore psychological balance? Rezanuli and does not overgrow – how to make a psychological wound overgrow? You need not look for ways to fulfill your needs, but learn to manage yourself – again, cognitive dissonance? What is the lordly attitude towards people? How to deal with what is called «socially unapproved norms of behavior»? Having two rather than one job gives an independent position: is it noticeable that those who constantly have two or more jobs do not «break down» and work out to retirement? If you work in the civil service, and at the same time you or your relatives have a business, then you have a quiet life and career? Ikar’s syndrome is when an overly self-confident boss, who has never seriously broken off before in life, with inclinations called sadistic, runs into a subordinate who looks like himself, dismisses him, and then he writes complaints about him and «drags him» in court, until the fired boss is fired? For any boss, a dismissed subordinate can cause trouble, since he now has no power over him, and the former subordinate has nothing to fear, since he will no longer be fired and since he has no job? Is any team an aggressive environment or at least fair competition with each other? Confidence is transferred from one to another, like a baton in a baton – defended your own, and you are full of confidence, lost, and you have a bad mood? Can you concede in anything if this contributes to further victory? Does everyone talk about everything that happened at their previous place of work when they «drop out» of the cage (when they no longer work there)? If you are not mistaken, it was in the comedy «Dog in the Hay» filmed in the USSR that one of the heroes of the film (a hired artist) said something like this: «The boss is the person who, when he’s the boss, needs to carry the pot and knock him over the head of this pot when he is no longer the boss»?

«Anyone who has shamed a great power will never be safe. As long as people are obsessed with revenge, they will set precedents that they are not good at joking with, «the phrase from the movie Terminal F about Edward Snowden.

The inscription on the logo of the unit of psychological operations: «Win the mind win the day» (approximate translation: «Win the mind – win the day»).

The public demands the resignation of the Telecoms management (the name of the organization was changed for legal reasons, the similarity in the name to any organization is an accident) after a wave of suicides that swept through the company.

The information obtained from Internet resources and other media outlets indicates that at least 20 employees of the company committed suicide in a year and a half and that the company’s leader was allegedly to blame – it is asked, someone wants to say that none of these employees went for help to psychologists or psychiatrists? Definitely had to go, given the Western European mentality announced in the media, where it is considered the norm to go to psychologists and psychiatrists for psychological help, well, did this help those who committed suicide? It can be seen that there is definitely no, well, if there really was a problem in the leadership, then the same Fernand, a character from the work of Alexander Dumas, showed how to solve this problem (we repeat – why it’s been known why to reinvent the wheel). There, as they say, it’s a matter of technology, there would be a person, but there would be a criminal code article, could psychologists and psychiatrists give such advice to those who turned to them for help from Telecoms? Of course, no, who can imagine a psychologist or psychiatrist who gives advice to his client to write a denunciation (anonym), for example, about the violation of the law by the boss, which is the reason for his psychological discomfort and even the reason, as in this case, of suicidal behavior, but write to the head there is that, «clean» people do not exist, and the one who doused with shit is to blame, and let him then launder. And the head of Telecoms, according to the media, «jumped» from the accusations against him, saying that he was just doing his job, demanded from his subordinates, and they just got so weak on their own.

Nobody wants to say that all the bosses from the category of those who are considered sadists are just as wrong to say that all teachers or pediatric doctors are pedophiles or all pathologists are necrophilia, just people with the above oddities, as they say, are looking for professions that bring them as close as possible them to the possibility of realizing these oddities.

The bosses are needed to organize the activities of people, there are simply those who enjoy insults and humiliations of someone, while the insults and humiliations are not related to work processes. There are those who are called sadists and who have found for their oddities a suitable profession called a «leader», believing that it justifies their line of behavior.

So who is to blame for the above suicides – the boss or subordinates, who may be those who are called impressionable people, and who themselves are responsible for their deaths? On the topic of human suicide, the hero of the film «Fire Versts» (USSR, 1957, director Samson Samsonov), if not mistaken, was told when he saw the corpse: «Intelligence is a game of imagination». And about the game of imagination, we can recall the children’s writer Korney Chukovsky and his story «Cockroach», where all the animals were afraid of the cockroach, and the sparrow ate it. Soviet cartoons raised in children the absence of cowardice and excessive impressionability, as well as Soviet cartoons brought up mutual assistance. In the cartoon, for example, like «Tom and Jerry», the characters were endowed with qualities such as cunning and resourcefulness. As the saying goes, the king makes an entourage, if everyone recognizes one person as a king, then he exists, like a king, as soon as he is no longer considered him, he is no longer a king: someone just suggested to himself that his boss – a king to whom no responsibility extends, and he is as simple a citizen as the others, no more no less. If you are afraid of someone and recognize his power over himself, then he is the king, until a sparrow flew from the story of Korney Chukovsky.

The inscription on the logo of the unit of psychological operations: «Mutatio animi» (approximate translation: «Change of soul»).

Fear and faith in miracles rule some, and some use it: why wait until scientists invent something to help people – I’ll go to the sorcerers and they promise to do everything quickly? Life is a struggle, and part of this struggle is cunning, is this part of the unspoken psychology? Who and for what is ready to give soul and body? Should a person be prepared for life? Do not swallow the bait prepared for you by manipulators that you or your intermediaries will have to meet in life? You need to be careful with some people who often participate in dialogs and whose work involves communicating with people – can they be the ones they call manipulators? They say that some of those who do not want to work physically find a way out, how do they do this – they begin to «load» people? Most go in «masks» and are afraid to take them off, since they consider it dangerous to remain themselves? Undercover psychology is prohibited or unaware of it, so psychologists and psychiatrists do not learn tricks or they do not know how to trick, then what can they teach? My life – my rules, as I want, and I live? If a person over 30 speaks of highly moral or highly idealistic things, is he either an idealist, or a cunning hypocrite, or crazy? Does a person who is not physically disabled or not in prison have the right to complain about life? Who has a monopoly on convincing someone of something or doesn’t have it? A lot of what wants to influence the human consciousness, and there is a struggle between them? A disabled person lived in my yard, and there were people who didn’t have physical disabilities who came to him and complained «out of friendship» about their life – did they really not understand the situation? He is disabled, and they are healthy, and they still complain about life to a disabled person: whoever complains about life to a person with physical disabilities, is that disabled person mental? What are motivators and demotivators?

As the doctor said in the movie «Fight Club» (Germany, USA, 2000, directed by David Fincher), the protagonist of this film: «Go to where hopelessly sick people are and you will see real suffering». You can see the project «I am shy of my body» (Ukraine).

There is such a person as Nick Vuynich, he is, as it is now called, a motivational speaker, without a doubt he is the one who is called a strong-spirit person, according to the media, he has a rare genetic pathology (phocamelia) from birth, he does not have full hands and legs.

Tips are good, but isn’t eating tips or money a hungry person? Satisfied with the hungry is not a friend? I sang to you, you didn’t dance – the one who is called the manipulator is offended when people don’t listen to him and when people don’t follow him, like rats after a boy playing the pipe in a famous fairy tale? An ideal person is one who does what he needs to do – everyone should be in their place? Study the statistics regarding the right question before making a conclusion, or will you get an unclear result? Any sociological polls can be simple fraud, not true, carried out in someone’s interests, and polls can be conducted with simple «extras» hired for the money to say what the person who hired them needs to say? Remember that everyone lives in legal and psychological restrictions? Psychology is not universal, should psychology be adapted to the country, place of residence or to a social group and to each person? It makes no difference whether or not they perform actions against me that are considered to be manipulation, the main thing is that I feel psychologically comfortable, since on a conscious and unconscious level, everyone is manipulating someone? Which part of any society has more pronounced what is called social maladaptation? Who has to go more than one kilometer of copper pipes, fire and water? One who does not have parents who can qualitatively prepare for life will only succeed in life in the second half, when a person has his own life experience, is it important to remain normal until then? Everywhere hidden motivation and manipulation – you need not to understand the world literally and constantly analyze the incoming information? The puppeteer inside you in the form of endorphins, with the help of which higher powers control you? Do not always believe your eyes and ears, although what you hear is not an auditory hallucination? Hatish, eat, people, wider, what are the words «shibals», these are the words that determine social status? «Give those with whom you can’t do anything, to us,» the state says many different organizations, «we will correct the situation.» There are many who want to set the right path, and soon there will be as many as those who want to set the true path? Does anyone have any problems just because of the lack of necessary information? Where and who replace myths with real information – in the family are parents, and if not there and not they, then in prison? The son of a general cannot become a marshal, since the marshal has his own children: who will help someone who has grown up or is growing up in an incomplete family – an organization to protect a person, or should he help himself, or should people like him help him? Whether you swim or not swim – when you are alone in the sea of life, you need to be more resilient than those who are not alone, and know more than those who are not alone, but here’s the paradox how you will know more, because if you alone, you have no one to tell about all the underwater currents, so you are not a competitor to those who swim as a team? What is risk diversification – if one brother cannot get a job in life, his brother will help him, who will help someone who does not have a brother, sister, father or mother? There are those who lived in a complete family, but they are still «alone» – parents who lived for themselves, make their descendants uncompetitive with the descendants of others? Words inserted into phrases for manipulating people: «so-called», «pseudo», «supposedly», «sort of like»?

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An excerpt from a cartoon song

«Bremen Town Musicians» (USSR, 1969).

Sirens are ancient Greek mythical creatures, whose songs are beautiful, and they want to lead people astray swimming on ships, they want to lead Odysseus out of the way with their alluring singing, and to prevent this from happening, according to myth, Odysseus slaughtered his companions on a sea voyage ears waxed, and he tied himself to the mast of the ship.

Earlier, when there were no computers and the Internet, pocket thieves told a crowd of people that a train was flying in the sky, while the crowd was watching, they climbed her pockets.

«Have you ever heard a mason or a machine tool talk about high ideals, only big-bellied and muggy uncles speak about this, as our bosses do, since they can do nothing more than invent fairy tales for adults and voice those tales that need to be voiced at some point, they take them out and put them in, like a disc puts in a disc jockey, and make them work at a construction site, and all their idealism ends, read the fairy tale «How a man fed two generals», like, so called, they think that they «load» people, and think that it’s their calling, but the common man doesn’t need it, he just needs to earn money for a living, youngsters are being carried on their «load», – the words of Vasily’s assistant in a smoking room at a construction site.

Manipulate and manipulate, as a rule, there is no manipulation: one receives one, the other another, which means that one manipulates the other to the same extent as the other with it, just everyone gets what he wants – the seller receives money for the goods, working money for his product of labor – this can also be interpreted as manipulation.

Something already manipulates a person’s behavior, for example, instincts, such as sexual ones, but such manipulations, such as using alcohol and drugs, are not beneficial for a person in the sense that this does not improve the quality of life, but worsens – the body deteriorates, therefore, this is unacceptable, since the essence of the material is psychological comfort without harming the physical.

The material does not speak about the infringement of the rights of any part of society – orphans and not orphans, people who grew up in single-parent families and who grew up in full families are in equal positions with each other, which history proves, just among orphans, people from incomplete families, as a rule, do not have the information necessary for a quality life that is brought up by full families or they do not receive it during the life period during which they are received by complete families, i.e. the necessary information is received late, as the radio signal from because of the big p distances from the emitter to the receiver. And so in any family – in an incomplete, complete, in that where someone grew up with one child in the family – they may not tell what you need to know for a quality psychological life, only, as a rule, in incomplete or in so-called dysfunctional families are more likely that you will not hear what is needed to ensure maximum comfort, again in the psychological sense.

In connection with the above, this material was created in order to increase the standard of living and prolong life (since there are habits that shorten life, which are characteristic, as a rule, for those discussed later in this sentence), mainly those who grew up without parents, people brought up in single-parent families, and others, according to the author, the least socially protected people, which will be discussed below. Therefore, the work is recommended primarily for acquaintance in single-parent families and not having close relatives, since such people, as a rule, do not have unspoken sources of information that they can use, sources that are their relatives. The real story: Andrey grew up in a large family without a father, went to prison, died of heart failure. There are also so-called psychological orphans who seem to live in a complete family, whose members do not have, as they say, bad habits, but they were not given information in this family about, so to speak, a set of unspoken resources of good mood and their products, and also about «secret diplomacy» (recall the film «The Inspector of Traffic Police», which was already discussed), which is present between people in any society, are psychological orphans growing or, if lucky, raised in families, again, as they say, abusing alcohol drinks or among parents living their own lives or arranging their own lives, forgetting about everything else.

The real story: Sergey from a complete family, parents working, studied to be a lawyer, an excellent student «real», not due to the efforts of relatives, dismissed for negative reasons related to the wrong decision of the working moment at work. He knew any right perfectly, but he didn’t possess «underwater» currents.

Let us digress to statistics, why it needs to be studied in the right framework, because there are patterns, knowing which statistics can be used to our advantage, reducing or eliminating the possibility of manipulating oneself by someone. For example, knowing that according to statistics, 8 out of 10 people (80%), when asked to guess any number, they will guess the exact number 7, you will not succumb to a manipulator who will pretend to be a telepath when he says that you guessed the number 7, of course If you are in these 80% of people who must make up the number 7, this is probably due to the fact that the number 7 is considered lucky.

Also, a certain number of injuries occur each year, of course, with errors, but within a certain amount, for example, in one year 13 million, in another 13 and a half million, etc., so that accident is predictable, insurance companies know about it companies and bookmakers, they know how many insured events and winnings will be for a certain period of time. All this information from the series «The main element. Anticipate an Accident», Russia, 2013.

This work can be attributed to the promotion of a healthy lifestyle (healthy lifestyle), not just a physical, but a psychological healthy lifestyle, although, as you know, physical illnesses can result from an unsatisfactory psychological state of a person.

The inscription on the logo of the information operations unit: «Indicium dominates» (approximate translation: «Information domination»).

If the information in this material is interpreted as the norms of healthy lifestyle in a psychological sense, then, according to the healthy lifestyle standards, if you use alcohol or drugs, then you lead or led a psychologically unhealthy lifestyle and because of this you resort to the use of the above psychostimulants? For the leader, the main thing is to set a goal, allocate resources and monitor the execution, or should each boss and manager have a «package» of motivational phrases for subordinates to work with? Failures of those who do not know how to «load» people, on the street, at work and at home? In a family, in order for it to be strong, you need not even «load» your spouse or spouse, but «reboot» from unnecessary downloads (for example, envy to a more successful or successful) that impede the existence of the family? Are there some things that if you haven’t told the family, then there’s nowhere else to learn about them? Words attributed to Otto von Bismarck: «Those who save on schools will build prisons.» Prison – a meeting place for those who did not possess the necessary information?

There is such a thing as a military specialty (those who have experience in military service and a military ID understand what they are talking about), and according to information received from communication with former military personnel, there is such a military specialty, as special propaganda.

They say that a person, sorry for slang, needs to be «loaded», that is, convinced, because someone’s children who take the wrong steps in life are usually the result of their parents not knowing how or «loading them» badly they are incompetent as, as they used to be called, political officers or, as they call them now, deputies for educational work, the result, as the hero of the film «Dostagaev and Others» said (production «Lenfilm», USSR, 1959, directors Yuri Muzykant, Natalya Rashevskaya): «There is nothing daughter in you.» He does not get what he expected from his child, but he expected, judging by his phrase, relations in the «father and daughter» mode, and such relations, it must be understood, are not. «There is nothing sons or daughters» – does this happen when children begin to «load» people from the street or from any other side?

No matter how much you say to the child, «Do not do this,» but if you yourself do what you criticize, the child will do what you will do, and not listen to you? The main thing is to «catch» a train going in the right direction – in the right, in the sense, healthy? Whoever grows up in an incomplete or, as is customary to say, in a dysfunctional family may have the same ambitious goals with those who are in a full and prosperous family, but the paths to them will usually differ? Those who grow up in a full and prosperous family will reach their goals without any loss, since they will give him the right «instructions» at home and prepare them for a clash with reality? They say that some special services of some states set themselves the goal of creating people with a psychologically uncomfortable state on the territory of their geopolitical adversary, which means that they are responsible for the psychological state of people, and someone may have psychological problems not only because of generally accepted situations?

Once again, that, first of all, this material is for those who grew up with one child in a family or in an incomplete family, for those who did not have parents, and we also add that the work is also for emotional people, for those who are called majors, who, as they say, were spoiled and for which, in this regard, the idea of the environment in a psychological sense is not ideally correct, as they say, romanticism (what is called adult childhood) is its own architecture of pseudo-reality, i.e. when in your head your own, unacceptable reality, pseudo reality, and all of this work for those not mentioned about someone, but who is heavier than the other, because of something, in short, for all those who are experiencing psychological distress.

It is also believed that there are people of certain statuses and certain professions, after parting with whom they cannot adapt to new forms of social relations, they say that this, for example, may be a military man who found himself in a «civilian» before he rose to retirement, a prisoner who has spent most of his life in prison and released, etc.

Both in jurisprudence and in psychology need a program of action? Stereotypes are different at different times, then what’s the point of stuffing yourself with stereotypes? They who have grown up in an incomplete family or in the absence of it cannot compete qualitatively with those who grew up with their parents? In some cases, people’s psychological experiences are related to their inconsistency with modern social standards, but people come up with standards, and can everyone set their own standards? Whoever is called stronger in spirit sets the standards? What are called fortitude, is taken from the correct idea of the surrounding reality?

In general, the presence of normal, it must be emphasized, normal parents in the generally accepted sense – this is the right program of action for their child in all stages of his life cycle, which they give him, and this correct program of action gives positive results again for their child.