Learn to be happy! Confidence and Success

# The animal is forced to go into the cage for food, the parent is forced to go into hell for the child.

# If you need to be happy, try to forget about happiness, because that is also happiness.

# You need to be able to see the light in the dark, it doesn’t burn outside, it burns inside, but people still want to see the light outside. That is why all the sages say that «true happiness lies in man.»

# You won’t be lonely in the dark if you can turn on the light inside, you won’t be miserable in sorrow if you can cultivate happiness within.

# Every lucky person is cunning in his own way.

# There are scientific Laws of Life, to be happy you need to know them, obey these laws, use them not against yourself, but for your own happiness.

# If we want a joyful and happy life scenario, everyone can get it, the main thing is to know the canons and principles (basis) of existence – this is the most useful knowledge for us, these are the Laws of Life (the Creator) that need to be mastered.

# The Laws of Life are common to all of us, neutral, fair, they can apply to all people equally. Some people cannot feel love, warmth, mercy, kindness and compassion. Because most of them are hidden in ignorance and do not recognize the laws of the Creator. They force themselves to live in a limited consciousness of the mind and have a defect of vision.

YOU HAVE GOLD INSIDE YOU

What would you do if someone gave you a box of gold and told you to use it? you can express your admiration in different ways, with emotion, but in any case, you will not do one thing: you will not receive such a gift. You immediately open this chest, run to the bank and convert all the gold into money or deposit it in the bank as «my wealth». In fact, all wealth is not in the hand or outside, it is in the brain! A person does not get rich with his hands, he gets rich with his brain. And what would you do if someone told you that you have a chest full of gold inside (your brain)? Would you believe it? Maybe you will search your brain (soul) and find a box of gold and profit from it. However, have you ever thought that most of us have a treasure chest of gold in our minds all our lives, but never use it? Deep within the level of thinking lies a wonderful part of our mind (consciousness) called the ’unconscious’. A lot is said about it, but no one has yet been able to fully understand its true meaning and unlimited possibilities. One thing is known, there is a chest of gold distributed equally to everyone. All received information is unconscious, processed and stored. This is a storage place for memories, a memory storehouse, a hidden repository of knowledge (a place where any data and information is stored). In order to be successful, we must use it properly, otherwise knowing it will be of no use. Like beggars sheltering in the field or sitting in an empty house without light or water, sometimes we don’t know the value of the gold that is in our brain, and we are unaware that there is a chest of gold inside us. This is «Beysana» that represents who you are!

I hear the advice of many wise people: «Don’t say you’re poor», «Don’t say you don’t have a job», «Don’t say the government is bad» and use what God has given you. Honestly, I agree, use the gold inside you, there’s no point hoarding it just to use it later. What are those golds? «Health», «Time», «Opportunity», «Ability», «Will to choose and make decisions», «Mind and Heart» etc. concepts.

For example: he is healthy, his limbs are like a hammer, his senses are full, but money is not always enough for him, because he falls into such a situation not because he loves himself in the role of a poor man, but because he does not know that all wealth is in the brain. That is, the reason is ignorance.

Another example: You need to be able to see the light in the darkness, it’s not burning outside you, it’s burning inside you, and people still want to see the light from outside. That is why all sages say that «true happiness is within a person». Our unconscious can be put to good use in our everyday life. He will not get tired of working for you, working hard, doing business, doing business, if you can guide him in the right way. It can be done without any productive action for our honest benefit. You can be more efficient by doing the work of an experienced secretary with your mind, by remembering information that will only benefit you, not cost you. As with a computer, every fact (information) and impression (emotion) that your mind perceives always passes through the surface level of thinking and is stored at the bottom level (mind), the unconscious. How can you use, harness and develop this incredible power? How to own the hidden kingdom of the unconscious? Of course, this will not be done in a hurry. The hidden powers of the unconscious must be developed through a slow and systematic process of concentration (letting go of what is needed and removing what is superfluous) and directed at our will, mind and imagination.

You decide what you want from the unconscious and give it one task at a time, because it is not a robot and can process a lot of information at once. If you want to solve a real problem, take about five minutes each morning and evening to think, imagine, believe that the solution is taking shape at your unconscious level. Then suddenly the solution is ready. It can be called a different, internal signal. This is not accidental. It does not appear out of nothing. You gave a task – oral or written – and he suggested solutions. For these to be the right decisions, you must make the right choices, and for that the unconscious must be open to the wisdom of its source, the Universal Mind (Creator). If you want to be healthy, focus on your thoughts about your health, do not let thoughts of illness and weakness interfere. If you want to be a successful person, don’t set yourself up for failure. If you want to be happy, then you should not allow yourself to think about worries and disappointments. Information that constantly occupies your mind becomes thought (inner word + imaginary image), then further enters your unconscious and gradually becomes your experience, so you become positive, constructive, pragmatist (it is his life, every action and attitude towards himself/others, work you need to think about (in terms of actually getting useful results). Always remember that your unconscious must be open to the wisdom of its source, the Universal Mind. Trust this wisdom and you’ll make fewer mistakes and be healthier and happier. You will live a fruitful life.

«The best we have to believe is the truth.» (William James is the father of modern psychology).

WHO IS HOLDING YOUR LUCK?

Did you have big dreams and plans in your childhood, youth, writing books or painting, starting your own business or engaging in other creativity, art, science and education? probably most of us have. and if we are honest with ourselves, most of us dream about those dreams and goals without being able to realize them. but we can justify our sacrifice by saying that I have other jobs and chores. «I would be happy to write a novel, but I have to do my job, otherwise who will support the family?». «It would be good to draw a picture, but my eyesight is bad.» «You could do science, but nobody needs science in our country.»

«When I was a child, I used to play the tambourine strongly, then I gave it up, I forgot it when I grew up, my hand doesn’t work» we invent empty excuses to justify ourselves completely:

Think for a minute about Gaius Julius Caesar. Did you know that Caesar wrote his notes at night, under a tent, while the entire Roman army slept, he would sleep very little at night, write a lot, and the next morning he would lead his soldiers into battle.

Did you know that George Frideric Handel wrote some of his best music after the doctors told him he had a serious illness? And Beethoven continued to write music even after he became completely deaf.

Have you ever wondered how the three great poets – Homer, Milton, and Dante – were blind?

Think of Hannibal Barca and Lord Nelson: the greatest commanders in history, they had only one eye. Well, Francis Joseph Campbell, blind in both eyes, was an outstanding mathematician and musician.

Do not feel that you are bound by something and do not limit yourself: «No, not only with my capabilities, but also with my circumstances.» I will never be like them.» I’m not telling you to be like them, but you have to untangle the strings of your brain and go beyond the limitations of your mind.

Think of daniel defoe, author of the world famous robinson crusoe: he wrote his book while in prison. John Bunyan, while behind bars for his religious activities, wrote The Pilgrim’s Journey, one of the most important works of English religious literature. Luther translated the «Bible» while sitting in the Wartburg Castle. The Italian poet, thinker, theologian Dante continued his works even though he was in exile for twenty years and died there, and «Don Quixote», one of the most famous and great works of world literature, was written by the Spanish writer Cervantes in Madrid prison.

You might say, «That’s all great, but I have to work.» Here is some more useful news for you:

Can you imagine the bride of Gone with the Wind? Margaret Mitchell, an American writer and journalist, wrote it while working at the Atlanta Journal, where she worked sixteen hours a day instead of eight.

Think of William Shakespeare, who said, «I learned nothing at school but to read and write, and the teachers were all rascals,» but he continued to explore on his own and became a great writer. English poet and playwright, considered one of the greatest playwrights.

Have you ever lost your health and felt like you lost yourself due to some shortcomings or defects? You immediately say, «God forbid.» There have been many people in history who had a good reputation despite being weak and disabled.

Franklin Roosevelt, the 32nd president of the United States, who was crippled by polio, once said: «The only obstacle to our plans for tomorrow can be our present doubts.»

Soviet and Latvian chess player, eighth world champion, grandmaster, Mikhail Tal, was born with a rare pathology – he had only three fingers. This did not prevent him from becoming the youngest world champion in history and learning to play the piano.

Hero of the Soviet Union, fighter pilot Alexei Maresyev, was seriously wounded during the Great Patriotic War, as a result of which he lost both legs. but then he did not lag behind the others and again flew into the sky with prostheses. in total, during the war, he fought 86 times, shot down 10 enemy planes: three before being wounded and seven after. Boris Polevoy, a writer without two legs, but amazed by his zest for life, wrote a book about the exploits of a Soviet pilot, which he called «The Story of a Real Man.»

The life of the British musician Rick Allen did not start out tragically. But in 1984, while he was driving his car, another driver began to threaten him on the road. Rick was young, angry and loved racing. So he gets into a car accident and loses his arm. Doctors tell Allen (at age 21) «Forget the drum, thank God you’re alive.» But he did not want to give up music no matter what. Rick was soon fitted with a custom prosthesis to hold the cane. In addition, he learned to use his legs. Since then, he always went barefoot at concerts. Allen returns to the stage as the drum tunes to his liking. Since his return in 1986, he released 8 albums. In 2001, he and his wife founded the Raven Drum Foundation, an organization that promotes healing through active participation in art music therapy. He is one of the TOP drummers on UK Gigwise. Fans call him «Thor», the god of thunder.

«I will never agree to turn back the time I lost my hand. Without him, I wouldn’t know how strong I am,» he says.

I won’t talk about Nick Vujicic, who I think you know better than I do. Now let’s focus on one more special person:

Did you know that the richest man in the world (in 2021) Elon Musk, an American entrepreneur, engineer and billionaire, was very withdrawn as a child? His classmates at school beat him several times in the toilet, abused him and did whatever he wanted. Elon’s peers at school beat him and broke his nose many times. He saw the divorce of his parents due to daily quarrels and fights.

Think once more about your desires, dreams, goals, and plans stored in your soul, heart, and inside (brain). Re-evaluate the arguments you’ve made up, don’t support excuses like «it’s impossible», you’re doing yourself a disservice, destroy their eyes. Revisit the arguments you’ve come up with as to why you can’t make your dreams come true. Realize that these excuses are false. Put them aside and make sure that your wishes come true and realize that their fulfillment depends on your brain alone. remember: The only person holding us together is ourselves. We are the only ones who are turning the face of our dreams and goals. It is we who are tying our fate, limiting our consciousness, creating an artificial handicap. The only obstacle to happiness in both lives is ourselves.

«I CONFESS»

Many years ago, the Viceroy of Naples, the Duke, visited Barcelona, Spain. At that time, there was a galley (a warship or boat in Europe that was rowed by slaves, convicts, or prisoners) in the harbor (a convenient place for ships to stop and come and go by the sea), where the oarsmen (rowers of the boat) were convicts. The duke went on board this galley and went through all the prisoners, asking each about the crimes that had brought him to the galley, and listening to their sad stories.

The first man said that he was only here because the judge had taken bribes from his enemies and sentenced him unjustly. Another, his enemies, said he paid off a witness and gave false testimony against him in court. To the third one, his best friend betrayed him, escaped from justice and sacrificed him for money. Finally the duke listened to the confessor: «Sir, I am here because I deserve it. I wanted to get a lot of money and stole a wallet. I deserve and am ready for what I have to endure.»

The duke was surprised. He turned to the captain of the galley and said, «All these people are innocent and have come here for an unfair trial, but there is one criminal among them. Everyone else is white, innocent, innocent, and this criminal came here with his corruption, so let’s release him as soon as possible before he infects others with his sin.» The person who confessed his guilt and mistake, agreed, was released and pardoned, and those who tried to justify themselves and chose excuses remained in the galley.

This is a story that actually happened, and interestingly, it reflects exactly what is happening in our lives. We make mistakes and instead of admitting the mistake, we spend our whole lives making excuses. We blame others (the environment), the situation, why don’t we say instead: «I have led my own life.» I am the only one in control of the thoughts in my head, and who I am right now, what I am, is what I have created for myself.»» The moment we understand this truth, we will be freed from the slavery of this life in the galley and will be able to return our life to our will and live a different, truthful and worthy life. look at your own life. understand yourself and life, regulate, discipline. learn to forgive and love yourself despite your mistakes. accept your mistakes. forgive and love yourself for these mistakes, and then you will be released from the life of slavery in the galley. you will be able to live the way you are meant to live: happiness, peace, and excellent health. It all starts with taking responsibility for your past, present and future.

THE BOOK OF LIFE

Is there a book where you are sitting or standing right now, whatever it is? If «yes», if you find it, I have one request for you – pick up the book. It doesn’t matter what the book is about: just pick it up and look at it. Now try to see it from a different point of view than yours. Imagine that this book, which you are holding in your hand, has been washed ashore by the waves of the sea on an unknown island. Do not think that the book is water-water. It is still dry. The inhabitants of this island are intelligent and culturally developed, but they have no idea about the alphabet and letters.

What do they do now? They pick up the book and see the beautifully crafted paper. They look at print and see the complex structure of letters and punctuation. They think it’s a very interesting art form and appreciate the book from that point of view.

Do they understand the book? Will they really benefit from this book? I think not. Of course, the paper and printing marks are only a small shadow of the actual content of the book. And the actual content depends on how well you understand it. The inside of the book is important, not the outside, because the inside of the book is a world full of ideas.

Isn’t it the same in our lives? We look at the paper and ink of life: breathing, eating, working, sleeping. We look at the ordinary scenes of life and say «this is life». It’s like looking at the paper and the labels and saying «this is a book». But our life, like a book, has a meaning, and of course we all know that the purpose of life is not in paper and ink, but in its meaning.

Our life should first of all be meaningful. Take another look at the ink and paper of your life. Today you send the children to school or go to work, which is very good. Without paper and ink, we would not be able to express the idea of the book, try to look beyond the known, surface meaning of everyday little things in your life, understand their real content, otherwise you will not see anything beyond your nose for the rest of your life. Feel the real meaning of what you are doing. Are you dealing with the meaning of life? you came into this world to learn to realize your purpose. every person does not come to this life in vain, a mission is assigned from above, but unfortunately, many people are unable to fulfill their mission and die. destiny is in your brain. You have the right to imagine your brain as paper and write your own destiny. make this your goal. this is your life book.

Apply this purpose, beyond the surface meaning of your life, look further and see the meaning of the past that you have lived before, see the meaning of the future plan.

Everyone talks about happiness, but few understand its meaning, because it is an abstract concept. only with this idea will you seek to understand the whole book of life. you cannot interfere with the general book of life, but remember that the book of your life is in your own brain. when you find a little meaning in life, it prompts you to search for a deeper meaning. this search will never be fruitless: it will lead you to more detailed answers to the questions that bother you, to a deeper and more meaningful life.

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