The Complete Parenting Collection

The Complete Parenting Collection
Steve Biddulph

Australian writer and lecturer Steve Biddulph presents his bestselling parenting guides Raising Boys and Raising Girls, available for the first time in a single eBook-only volume.In the global phenomenon Raising Boys, Steve Biddulph shares and gives practical and honest advice to parents so they can recognise the different stages of boyhood and learn how to raise happy, confident and kind young men. Biddulph has updated his classic book to explore more important topics and to offer parents real-life situations, thought-provoking insights, humour and help.Raising Girls acts as both a guidebook and a call-to-arms for parents. The five key stages of girlhood are laid out so that you know exactly what matters at which age, and how to build strength and connectedness into your daughter from infancy onwards. It is both fierce and tender in its mission to help girls more at every age. It’s a book for parents who love their daughters deeply, whether they are newborns, teenagers, young women – or anywhere in between.

The Complete Parenting

Collection

Steve Biddulph

Raising Boys

and

Steve Biddulph’s Raising Girls

Contents

Cover (#u4fda6eee-526d-592e-ae96-3cd597885d84)

Title Page (#u9115079e-92c0-53aa-8943-f73196999f0b)

Raising Boys (#u65a9d97a-8f7b-5d34-97ed-7ea0332672a8)

Steve Biddulph’s Raising Girls (#litres_trial_promo)

Also by Steve Biddulph (#litres_trial_promo)

Copyright (#litres_trial_promo)

About the Publisher (#litres_trial_promo)

Raising boys

Why boys are different – and how to help thembecome happy and well-balanced men

Third edition

Steve Biddulph

Illustrations by Paul Stanish

Table of Contents

Title Page (#ua0ff9f82-e3b7-5a76-a7a0-350dd2fde95b)

Preface to the new edition (#ua87a7512-7097-5279-9ed0-f6967f13d30e)

1 What is it with boys? (#u58a7b6e7-2553-52c2-bb55-d5979570e166)

2 The three stages of boyhood (#u353f57b5-f38e-5a85-b94e-956e80c6fe8b)

3 Testosterone! (#ucdf2c665-1522-5be4-a198-ea4d293b752b)

4 How boys’ and girls’ brains differ (#u6bb043a0-bf2e-5535-8f75-c7736409b4a7)

5 What dads can do (#u42520a01-0318-5f68-9d7c-f1d3b1d2193b)

6 Mothers and sons (#uff947750-3c23-59c5-9b39-781572153073)

7 Developing a healthy sexuality (#litres_trial_promo)

8 A revolution in schooling (#litres_trial_promo)

9 Boys and sport (#litres_trial_promo)

10 A community challenge (#litres_trial_promo)

About the Author (#litres_trial_promo)

Author’s notes (#litres_trial_promo)

Copyright (#litres_trial_promo)

About the Publisher (#litres_trial_promo)

Preface to the new edition (#ulink_1f150cae-b48d-5fea-b6af-a5098a5c77ea)

As the twentieth century drew to a close, it was looking bad for boys. Mothers in the labour ward, when told, ‘It’ s a boy!’, groaned ‘Oh no …’

Girls in the 1990s were on the move, going places, focussed and confident, but boys were somehow all wrong – too noisy, too energetic, unmotivated at school, dangerous to themselves and others. And then they turned into – men!

But those of us who worked with families – or who had boys of our own and loved them dearly – knew this wasn’t right. Two vital truths needed to be remembered: that boys were different, in small but important ways; and that by understanding their psychology, the stages of their development, their hormones and their hard-wired nature, we could raise them to be fine young men – safe, caring, passionate and purposeful.

This book you hold in your hands was the first, worldwide, of a slew of boy books, and it helped the world to turn a corner. It was a bestseller in Australia, the UK, Germany, Japan, Brazil and fifteen other countries; but more than that, it was loved, kept by the bedside, dog-eared and much visited. People urged their friends to read it. Women nudged their husbands in bed and said, ‘Listen to this …’

Boys have real dangers in their lives. They are three times more likely than girls to die before the age of 21, and five times more likely to have problems at school. Millions of boys have lessened chances in life because we have failed to understand and love them. But all across the globe things are changing. Recent research has demonstrated that boys have turned around and are now less at risk than ten years ago. We are getting better at raising them.

With this new realisation of boys’ needs – for exercise, for warm relationships with mothers, for fathers and other good men in their lives to be active and engaged, for schools that know how to teach in boy-friendly ways – we can now go much further. We can raise a generation of boys that are happier, more alive, more connected to the human race, just in time for a world that so badly needs good men.

Boys are fun. They make you laugh. They are full of life, and can share that energy with you. They speak from the heart and are forgiving. So I have tried to put all those qualities into this book. Whether your son is a tiny baby, a young schoolboy, or a teenager surging with hormones and hopes, this book is for you. I hope you like it.

And I hope that if, one day, your daughter has a baby son, she will say, ‘Wow, that’s fantastic!’

Steve Biddulph

Tasmania, 2008

www.stevebiddulph.com